It will be quicker for solving ejaculation and erection problems to treat them calmly and trying not to desperate.

If you are a woman, there are several things you can do for making your partner feel more comfortable while he is having some of those problems (like premature ejaculation, or also related to a dysfunction or retarded ejaculation).

Now, let’s take a look at what problems might men suffer from, and we will also advice you just to make you ready to help him and solve them together.

Lack of interest

Your partner doesn’t look much interested on having sexual relations.

It is certainly a problem. So most men think that having a powerful and prolonged erection is their duty, it might be confusing and frustrating not feeling excited in front of a woman and her attributes.

In that case, being the woman, you shouldn’t take it on the bad way and, for instance, ask him “what’s wrong? Don’t you like me anymore?”. Think that he will be very sensate and probably thought about it time long enough.

What you must do is wait until the right time, when you were both in a good mood and relaxed, and then try to talk it together and very tactfully. Try to making feel secure and so he will explain you all his doubts. This is the right way for initiating a real conversation, from whom you could both take profits, and so it will be easier to talk about those aspects of your common life and make stronger your relationship.

Try to listen carefully and don’t misunderstand his comments. Repeat with your own words, during the conversation, what he is telling you so that no misunderstandings were allowed.

What to do

  • If it’s a physical problem, then ask him to go to the doctor, a specialized sexologist. The doctor will need to revise his lifestyle, medicaments that is having and his health in general. Go together with him so you can be a moral support.
  • If the problem is emotional (afraid from loosing your love, stressful life due to the job, anguish, confusion,…). Talking to him often can be handy, but it might be also needed to go to a psychologist it it’s a deep problem. You must always look confident and eliminate tensions from his life. If he is very stressed due to work issues, plan some holidays it you can allow it, or making him slow down so that he can employ that new spare time with doing some relaxing activities.
  • Your relation is not as passionate as before? It is Orly a matter of boreness? When was the last time you made a new and different activity? Are you both trying to keep it the passion on? It is always good to go and do something different and profitable for you both.

Remember, communication between you and your partner is highly important.