The taboos have kept silent for a long time this problem. For fear and shame, premature ejaculators tend to be slightly receptive to talk about what they experience.

Premature ejaculation treatment

In ten questions we ask and answer the most frequent interrogants on premature ejaculation. After reading it, you’ll be nearer to confront and solve the problem.

1. What is premature ejaculation?

We talk about premature ejaculation when a man ejaculate too quickly but he wants to last longer. But what is “too fast”? What is normal? Is there a minimum time considered? In practice, only what you and your partner matter: so, we talk about premature ejaculation if it takes place before the couple desires. The ejaculation may even come up before penetration. A man who does not have this problem is able to control when he wants to ejaculate, in order to delay the moment of the orgasm for him and his partner. 10 keys on premature ejaculation.

2. Is it the same thing premature ejaculation, rapid ejaculation and pre cum?

No, the first two term are the same thing, but prem cum is pre-ejaculatory semen. It is the fluid that ejaculates from a man before the climax.

3. Affects many men?

More than one in three men are facing this problem. Studies conducted in this regard speak of a 36-38% of men. Some happens occasionally and others routinely.

4. Is this a disease?

No. It is not known exactly why some men easily control their ejaculation while others can not. Recent studies suggest that the brain neuromediadores play an important role in the ability of delaying the ejaculatory time. Stress and anxiety also accelerate ejaculation but are not solely responsible for this problem. Other causes could be bad maturbatory habits (masturbation doing too fast) or bad coiuts habits (doing sex too quickly when the man was young). A bad masturbatory practise (just for getting to the climax as fast as possible) can have fatal consequences for whom that practises it, based on the fact that he won’t develop control mechanisms that help him to identify the feelings that precede orgasm and therefore control his ejaculatory reaction.

5. Is it a hereditary problem?

Although it has discussed this possibility, there is no study that has confirmed this hypothesis.

6. Does Circumcision solve premature ejaculation?

For a long time it was thought that circumcision solve this problem. However, there is evidence that it has no influence. The idea was based on the decreased sensitivity in the glans, which should curb the excitement. However, there are so many early eyaculadores among circumcised men as among those who are not.

7. Can we deal it with drugs?

Yes, certain antidepressants have proved effective in delaying the time of ejaculation. But only serve to treat the symptoms, not the cause of the problem, when treatment usually ends the problem reappear. Some men found insufficient the effect of these drugs, think they do not pose a significant delay ejaculation.

8. Are there tricks that allow delaying ejaculation?

Thinking about something else, masturbate before sex, do it twice in a row, controlling breathing… some of these tricks are completly false and others may work but are not definitive. To think otherwise allows decrease in sexual arousal and delaying ejaculation but different experts assure that the only thing that is obtained is the decrease the cortical control of the ejaculatory reflects, making it even less lasting. Other myth is that having a sexual encounter after a first ejaculation is an effective solution. But it is not for those people that for their age or characteristics have problems on achieving a second erection. We must not forget that a man needs a recovery period after orgasm.

9. Are there other therapies besides medicines?

Yes. The learning methods of controlling ejaculation are very effective. But requiring perseverance and collaboration of the couple for exercises. ‘Training’ either you get very good results. The best idea is to call upon the expertise of a sexology but there are books that can help you in knowing more details and exercises in order to overcome the problem.

10. Can a woman live with this problem?

Of course. If we take into account the percentage of men who suffer from this problem, we get the number of women who share. Many couples agree to live with it. There are many ways to get pleasure outside the penetration. Moreover, neither men nor women choose their partners solely by their sexual skills. Furthermore, there are exercises (like the ones described on this e-book) that can help the couple in order to control the ejaculation.